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Benjamin Franklin’s 14 Tips To Getting Things Done

Benjamin Franklin was a man of action. Over his lifetime, his curiosity and passion fueled a diverse range of interests. He was a writer (often using a pseudonym), publisher, diplomat, inventor and one of the Founding Fathers of the United States.

His inventions included the lightning rod, bifocals and the Franklin stove. Franklin was responsible for establishing the first public library, organizing fire fighters in Philadelphia, was one of the early supporters of mutual insurance and crossed the Atlantic eight times. Self-development was a constant endeavor throughout his incredible life.

Benjamin Franklin was clearly a man who knew how to get things done.

Here are 14 action-inducing lessons from him:

    • Less Talk, More Action

      “Well done is better than well said.”
      Talk is cheap. Talking about a project won’t get it completed. We all know people who constantly talk about the things they are going to do but rarely ever take that first step. Eventually people begin to question their credibility. Taking action and seeing the task through to completion is the only way to get the job done.

    • Don’t Procrastinate

      “Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.”
      This is probably one of the first quotes I remember hearing as a teenager. With an impressive list of achievements to his credit, Benjamin Franklin was not a man hung up on procrastination. He was a man with clear measurable goals who worked hard to turn his vision into reality. What are you putting off till tomorrow that could make a difference in your life today?

    • Be Prepared

      “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
      You need a plan to accomplish your goals. Charging in without giving any thought to the end result and how to achieve it, is a sure way to fall flat on your face. Think like a boy scout. Have a realistic plan of attack and a systematic approach for getting where you need to be.

    • Don’t Fight Change

      “When you’re finished changing, you’re finished.”
      Whilst many of us don’t like change, others thrive on it. Either way change is inevitable. The stronger we fight against it, the more time and energy it consumes. Give up the fight. Focus on proactively making positive changes, instead of having change merely thrust upon you. Wherever possible, try to view change as a positive instead of a negative.

    • Get Moving

      “All mankind is divided into three classes: those that are immovable, those that are movable, and those that move.”
      There’s a reason we use the expression, movers and shakers. Movers are the ones who take action, the people who get things done, while the immovable are sitting around scratching their heads wondering how others could possibly be so successful. Which group do you want to belong to?

    • Avoid Busywork

      “Never confuse motion with action.”
      We are always running around doing things. We rush from one meeting or event to the next, sometimes without achieving a great deal. At the end of the day, how much of our busywork are we proud of? How much of that running around improves anyone’s life (including ours) for the better? Make your motion mean something.

    • Give Yourself Permission to Make Mistakes

      “Do not fear mistakes. You will know failure. Continue to reach out.”
      If we fear making mistakes, we become scared to try new things. Fear leaves us nestled in our comfort zone. Staying in your comfort zone rarely leads to greatness. Taking risks and giving yourself permission to make mistakes, will ultimately lead you to whatever your version of success may be.

    • Act Quickly on Opportunities

      “To succeed, jump as quickly at opportunities as you do at conclusions.”
      Opportunities are everywhere. The trick is being quick enough and smart enough to seize them when they arise. Instead of jumping to the conclusion that something won’t work or can’t be done, allow yourself the freedom to ask what if?

    • Continue to Grow

      “Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every new year find you a better man.”
      We all have vices of some description. The key is to keep them under control or preferably eradicate them entirely. Be kind to those around you, whether they are neighbors, family, co-workers or friends. Never accept that you have finished growing as a person.

    • Keep Going

      “Diligence is the mother of good luck.”
      Have you ever looked at a successful entrepreneur or business person and thought how lucky they are? Most of the time, luck has nothing to do with it. Hard work and sacrifice on the other hand have everything to do with it. Successful people deal with failure. They tackle their demons head on. They pick themselves up and keep going.

    • Know Yourself

      “There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.”
      Understanding ourselves is not easy. Sometimes we just don’t want to see ourselves for who we really are. It’s much easier to hold onto a romanticized version of ourselves or to simply view ourselves through other people’s eyes. Start by being brutally honest with yourself. Follow through with understanding, compassion and acceptance.

    • Don’t Self-Sabotage

      “Who had deceived thee so often as thyself?”
      We spend so much time worrying about other people hurting us, yet fail to comprehend the damage we inflict on ourselves. If you are using negative self-talk, lying to yourself or indulging in addictive behavior you are self-sabotaging. Life can dish up enough challenges without us adding to the mix. Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself like you would a best friend.

    • Don’t Give Up

      “Energy and persistence conquer all things.”
      Achieving our goals can be downright exhausting. There will be days when you want to give up. There will be times when your energy levels flatline and you wonder why you bother getting out of bed. Yet you push forward, day after day because you believe in yourself and you have the determination and strength to back up that belief.

    • Wise Up

      “Life’s tragedy is that we get old too soon and wise too late.”
      Benjamin was definitely onto something with this one. Who hasn’t had the thought – I wish I could know then, what I know now? Unfortunately there is no time machine; there is no going back. The key is to wise up as early as you can to start forging a life of purpose, achievement and happiness.

Article by Thea Easterby

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From Over- Thinker To Doer

Article by Craig Harper

The Almost Brigade

Many of us have been almost doing things for years. Almost changing habits. Almost getting in shape. Almost facing our fears. We boldly stand at the precipice of change like soldiers about to go to war. With the only problem being, we never go. We don’t fire a single bullet. Sure, we have the weapons and the potential to improvise, adapt and overcome but somehow… here we are. Still.

Thinking. Again. 

The Theory of Change

Yes, we think about how we’re going to change our lives. Constantly. And what we’re going to do. And how we’ll do it. We’ve talked about it. Researched it. Visualised it. Seen others do it. Planned for it. Hoped for it. Wanted, waited and intended but in that place outside our head (the physical world), we’ve never actually done the job. In most cases, we know what to do but (for a range of reasons) we don’t do what we know. We are theoretically and conceptually brilliant. If only life was a theory. A wish-list. A goal-setting sheet. A time-line.

Or an idea.

We all know that intentions aren’t actions, thinking isn’t doing and wanting requires no sacrifice, courage or effort. So, the challenge for us over-thinkers and under-doers is to escape the cycle of analysis paralysis and become the courageous, adventurous person who dares to explore their potential and do what success requires.

Good in theory Harper, but how?

Like most challenges, there’s no one-approach-fits-all solution but there are some strategies, ideas and techniques which have proven to be valuable to many people over the ages. Here are a few:

1. Control your controllables. As of right now, stop wasting time and energy on things you have zero control of. Namely, the past, other people, your genetics, the weather… should I continue? Here’s a healthy question: In this situation, this environment, this relationship, this conversation, this moment (etc.), what can I control? And another: what should I do today? Rather than, what am I comfortable doing?

2. Stop repeating yourself. And stop believing your own stories. Make a conscious effort to stop having the same pointless conversations about the same issues. With others and yourself.

3. Don’t wait for the perfect time. For the most part, perfect timing is a myth. It’s just another delaying tactic. We know what you’re up to. Some people will die waiting for the right time. Don’t join the club.

4. Shift your focus. Imagine I said to you “if you don’t think about the number seven for the next sixty seconds, I’ll give you a million dollars”. You’d never win the money because you’d constantly be telling yourself not to think about the number seven. Trying to ‘not’ think about something doesn’t work. Instead, shift your attention and energy elsewhere. Try something more positive. Something more solution-focused. I’ve always found that helping others with their challenges puts my so-called problems into a very different perspective. The less I obsess about me, the more empowered and effective I become.

5. Every so often, do something that scares you. Not to be mistaken with doing something life-threatening or stupid. When we face our fears and come out the other side (as we usually do), we experience an immediate internal shift. For the better. Overcoming fear is typically about doing more and thinking less.

6. Commit to doing something new every day. Having new experiences helps us transform our internal landscape. It could be something big (jumping out of a plane) or something small (saying hello to a stranger). When we do different we become different. Change produces change.

7. Hang out with doers. People who will challenge you. Not people who will get on board your train to Over-Thinkers-Ville.

8.Allow yourself to make mistakes. It’s okay to be wrong. And flawed. And dysfunctional. Normal, in fact. Welcome to the world’s biggest club. Some people never take a first step because their goal is perfection. Such a bad goal. Don’t let your ego (“I don’t want to look stupid”) get in the way of your potential. When you’re making mistakes, you’re learning, you’re taking chances, you’re being proactive and mostly importantly, you’re growing.

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Are You A Worrier Or A Warrior?

by Craig Harper

It’s amazing how much difference two letters can make…

Worriers:

  • Find things to stress about
  • Are generally reactive (not proactive)
  • Over-think the shit out of everything
  • Are people-pleasers (and not in a good way)
  • Avoid the things they should address
  • Allow fear to run their lives
  • Don’t stand up for themselves
  • Hope things will (magically) work out
  • Love routine, predictability and familiarity
  • Beat themselves up often
  • Procrastinate
  • Apologise unnecessarily
  • Waste emotional energy on stuff they can’t change
  • Waste time, talent and opportunities
  • Are exhausting to be around

 Warriors:

  • Take chances
  • Are prepared to get uncomfortable
  • Make the tough decisions
  • Persevere when most would give up
  • Ask the hard questions
  • Don’t look for permission, sympathy or approval
  • Explore and exploit their potential
  • Finish what they start
  • Talk less and do more
  • Are solution-focused not problem-obsessed
  • Acknowledge their flaws without any hint of self-loathing
  • Don’t shirk responsibility
  • Are inspiring to be around
  • Are adaptable and cope well with change
  • Fight for what they believe in 

Feel free to staple this to the forehead of someone special.

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